Should I File for Divorce?

Note: The DearEsq free 'ask a lawyer' site is offered as a free informational service to the public and is not intended as legal advice. Laws vary from state-to-state, and in addition every situation is unique, and relevant facts may not be known. The answer to the question posed below may not apply to in your state or to your situation. For legal advice in your state and your situation you should consult with an attorney in your state who is familiar with the rules and laws in your state.

I have been married for almost 7 years. The first 2 years of our relationship were great. We have 2 young children. I have been a homemaker since 2004. My husband has become an alcoholic and has talked to other women. There are lots of bad things that have come from what he has done. I know I want a divorce but I don’t know how to come out financially for the better. He is self employed so I wouldn’t want to ruin his reputation by divorcing on grounds of drunkenness because I will need him to pay child support, but I also don’t feel he could care for our children during visitation. How do I protect my children and myself both financially and physically without biting the hand that feeds?

You should consult with a local attorney who can provide you with legal advice. Depending on your state law and your marital property, you may be able to receive child support and retain a share of the marital property. Again, you should consult with a local family law attorney.