Are Adult Children Responsible for the Bills of Their Parents?

I’ve been estranged from my Mother for my entire adult life, I am 33-years-old. She was absent for all of my childhood and adolescence (my dad and maternal grandmother shared custody of me and my sister when they divorced). When I have tried connecting with her even on a limited basis over the years it’s always ended poorly (i.e. always in a state of crisis and needing money and getting abusive if I am can’t help or try to set boundaries). There are many other gory details, but I will spare you 🙂 Needless to say, I’ve made the conscious decision not to have her in my life. However, I just heard from my uncle that she is very sick and in the hospital and I am wondering what my financial obligations are. Both of my grandparents/her parents have passed and both of her siblings are incapable of providing any care (both financially and emotionally – one just declared bankruptcy and the other is autistic). My sister lives in CO and has washed her hands of the situation. So, that leaves me to shoulder the responsibility. That said, my questions are: If she were to name me next of kin, or appoint me power of attorney, what would the implications be for me legally? Would I be in anyway legally bound or obligated to cover any outstanding medical expenses etc? She doesn’t have any insurance and is currently on the San Mateo County Medical Plan and I THINK she is only 64 so not yet eligible for Medicare are there any other assistance programs that you are aware of that might help with expenses for low income/under-insured if she ends up needing hospice or long term hospitalization? I’ve started poking around on healthcare.gov as that may be an option for her, but as she has sh income and is on cash aid and food stamps I am not sure that is an option. Any guidance you can provide would be hugely helpful. Thank you! Read More …

Would it be Wise to Call this Person and Notify Her?

I went to my doctor and asked for a copy of my health record. When I arrived home I noticed I had another patients medical record. The record shows her name, address, telephone number, diagnosis and much more. Would it be wise to call this person and alert her to the fact the physicians group has provided me with her medical information? She is a workman compensation case according to what I have read. Read More …

My Mother in Law, Here in the US on a Tourist Visa, has been Admitted to the Hospital, Are We Liable for her Medical Bills?

My mother-in-law is visiting from Ghana. She is in the U.S. on a tourist visa. She has no medical insurance. We were told by my brother-in-law and her that she was in good health. She has been admitted to a local hospital with pneumonia and a salmonella infection. Are we legally liable for her medical bills? Read More …