Can I Get Child Support If I’m Married, But Separated?
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Summary
My husband and I have been seperated for about 8 months, but I have not been able to get a divorce because I am pregnant with our second child (which I have placed for adoption). We have a 2 year old child that he has never supported, and I can barely support her on my own. |
“My husband and I have been seperated for about 8 months, but I have not been able to get a divorce because I am pregnant with our second child (which I have placed for adoption). We have a 2 year old child that he has never supported, and I can barely support her on my own. Can I get child support from him even though we are still legally married? Will he be required to pay child support if he is in drug rehab?”
The answer is a “qualified absolutely”. Child support is the legal right of every child, whatever the status of your relationship with the baby daddy. However, the right to receive child support does not create a requirement to pay unless there is a Court order for support. There should be an office of child support services in your county tha you can go to to start a case for child support. Additionally, if you file for a dissolution of marriage and properly request support, then the Court will order it.
If the drug rehab program is such that it restricts your husband’s ability to seek employment - i.e. 24/7 in-patient, drug rehab in prison, etc. - then that would be a factor for the support starting at a later date. However this would not be an absolute bar to your starting your case for support.
If your concern is that if you start your case, your ex will realize that you are pregnant and try to block the adoption because he is the father and would not sign off on it, this may be some kind of fraud against your husband and his parental rights, and I do not suggest that line of activity. One pursuing such a scheme that prevents the support of a post-natal child, actually harms four people at least: pregnant person, post-natal child, fetus and father.
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Michael Durgavich is an accomplished attorney and mediator. Maintaining a general practice in the San Jose, California area, Mr. Durgavich specializes in family law, bankruptcy, and alternative dispute resolution. Mr. Durgavich can be reached through his website at http://www.MichaelDurgavich.com. Contact This Author
State laws vary, and the above is intended as general advice, and not direct legal advice regarding any one particular situation in any one state. For direct personal legal advice related to your own situation you should consult an attorney familiar with the laws of your state and with your situation.