January 2010


How to Handle Disputes With Driveway and Utility Easements

Summary

My neighbors have begun building a locking auto mated gate with an alarm system and security cameras at the street- side- end of the driveway. Can the benefactors of an express easement for only “driveway and utility purposes” build a gate on what is, save for the easement, my property? If not, can I stop them without the hassle and expense of a survey and lawsuit?

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“I have a residential property which is burdened with a recorded easement for “driveway and utility purposes” for the neighbors, who are otherwise landlocked behind me. My neighbors have begun building a locking auto mated gate with an alarm system and security cameras at the street- side- end of the driveway. I have asked them to stop building, but they are continuing. Instead, they openly and verbally challenge me to bring a lawsuit to try to stop them. My question is this: Can the benefactors of an express easement for only “driveway and utility purposes” build a gate on what is, save for the easement, my property? If not, can I stop them without the hassle and expense of a survey and lawsuit?”

The scope of what an easement owner is allowed to do is, unfortunately, subject to a fairly fact-specific analysis. By which I mean that the precise language of the easement grant, possibly combined with other facts (the layout of the properties, the intent of the grantor, etc.) may be considered by a finder of fact. Putting a gate on a driveway is not so far out of the ordinary uses of a “driveway” that it is clearly not allowed, but at the same time it is not always part of a driveway, so you certianly have an argument that it might not be. The unfortunate part about this is that it may come to a lawsuit before a final decision could be made. I would strongly advise that you at least consult with a local real estate attorney for an opinion on the specifics of your case. One other thing you might want to consider, which (if successful) might be a lot cheaper. Find out if your city or county requires a permit in order to build a gate like this one. If one is required, I’m guessing your neighbor didn’t get one. The building department might put a stop to this construction for you. Ordinarily, I’d caution you that this might negatively affect your relationship with your neighbor, but in this case it sounds like there isn’t much of a relationship to salvage.

My Ex Moved Away With Our Son, What Can I do?

Summary

I am the custodial primary parent of our 16 yr old son. His father and I use to get along and when our son was 10 he wanted to live with his father (we lived within 5 miles of each other) so we orally agreed that we would have an “open door” type agreement BUT our son would come back with me for High School. Well, time moved on and my son & his father moved 4 hrs away from me. Well, I am not being “phased out” and our son is not doing well in high school and I want him back. What can I do??

Dear Esq. is not intended as direct personal legal advice. For direct personal legal advice regarding your own state and situation you should consult a local attorney. → You should not and may not rely on anything on this website as legal advice.

“I am the custodial primary parent of our 16 yr old son. His father and I use to get along and when our son was 10 he wanted to live with his father (we lived within 5 miles of each other) so we orally agreed that we would have an “open door” type agreement BUT our son would come back with me for High School. Well, time moved on and my son & his father moved 4 hrs away from me (at the time I was okay with it as he would come back to me for high school – we never changed any court documents, etc..). Well, I am not being “phased out” and our son is not doing well in high school and I want him back. What can I do?? The county I live in still has jurisdiction and we never changed court documents – I still am the primary custodial parent. My son has a great social life and plays for the high school football team…so he is on the fence about moving and his father & I are NOT getting along anymore. His father is a bad egg – 3 DUI, several evictions, etc..I have a stable home life…
What can I do…”

Generally speaking, you will need to file with the court, requesting that the court enforce the existing order – however, almost certainly what will then happen is that either your ex will request, or the court will on its own order, an evaluation to determine what is in the best interest of your son. Unfortunately, courts are loath to disturb the status quo – your son has been living with his father for the past 6 years, and absent the situation truly being a detriment to your son, there is a good chance that the court will revise the order to reflect your son living with your ex.