February 2006


How Do I Lower My Child Support When I Get a Lower Paying Job?

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How do I lower my child support when I get a lower paying job?

Dear Esq. is not intended as direct personal legal advice. For direct personal legal advice regarding your own state and situation you should consult a local attorney. → You should not and may not rely on anything on this website as legal advice.

“How do I lower my child support when I get a lower paying job?”

You bring a motion with the Court and ask them to lower it. Ideally you will have a lawyer do this, because the Courts are notorious for not playing nice with people who represent themselves in family law, but if you cannot afford an attorney, you should ask the clerk at the courthouse how to file a motion to reduce your child support.

Whatever you do, do not rely on an agreement made with your ex but not signed by the Court. Child support is unique in that, in many states, even if you have an agreement in writing, if it is not cemented by an order of the Court, it is invalid. I know many a person who has reduced their child support following an agreement with their ex, only to have the Court tell them months - and even years - later that they owed a massive amount of back support based on the old amount because the agreement had not gone through the Court.

Recommended Reading (click on the picture for details):
The Child Support Battle : Methods for Fathers to Reduce or Suspend and Get Paid by Paying Child Support

Terminate Parental Rights of Bipolar Parent?

My daughter’s father is bipolar and does not take his meds. Can I use this to terminate his parental rights and let my fiance adopt my daughter?

Dear Esq. is not intended as direct personal legal advice. For direct personal legal advice regarding your own state and situation you should consult a local attorney. → You should not and may not rely on anything on this website as legal advice.

“I am 30 years old, with an 8 year old son and a 3 year old daughter. My daughter’s father has bipolar disorder and does not take meds. He left us over 14 times, left the hospital when our daughter was in surgery, never works, doesn’t pay child support, and did not comply with the court ordered visitation. He was in front of the divorce judge pleading that he was a good father and the judge told him he had to visit with his daughter under the Court’s supervision. He never set anything up with the NFV of the Courts. He has not seen her in almost a year. My now fiance’ wants to adopt her, she calls him “Daddy”, and he’s been supporting her for the last year. If I went to the courthouse myself to file Termination of Rights is it possible I have a leg to stand on?”

No.